My wife of 26 years came home from a overseas vacation with a tatoo + a...

[unsure]

...piercing in a private area how to reac I'm concerned that these were life decisions that were made without my knowledge or my thought on the subject and fill if she would do this what else's is she capable of I thought after 26 years I knew her. Is this something I should be concerned about and how should I react to these permanent decisions ?

[yayo_upin_disbitch]

oo boy !! she went wild!! know doubt about that u should be concerned

[przhm247]

I'd about be postal myself!!

[kldr_01]

the tattoo hey its her body, the piercing you just might enjoy that

[simplyenigmatic25]

Well, neither one of her decisions are "permanent" - she can have the tattoo removed and she can take the piercing out herself. You need to tell your wife how you feel about what she has done - she might not think it's such a big deal. She is a grown woman - and if her getting a tattoo is the biggest concern you have in your relationship then you both must have a great relationship. Just talk with her and be honest, she might not even realize that she should have mentioned these things to you before doing them.

[birdsdafly]

I would love to see the answers to this question, I too had a similar problem myself but this was with my child.

[Nick P]

Just say you go girl, and if you are so dissapointed, in bed notify "it interupts me".

[Kyla C]

Your wife doesnt need YOUR permission to do things with her own body. You arent her father or her boss. She is "growing", doing something outside of her normal self. Good for her. Life is short. You need to grow up and think of her instead of yourself.

[msqtech]

You should sit down and communicate with her and if you dont like her answers tell her so. I dont think I would like this kind of thing either. She may be having a mid life crisis and find that she needed to do something to spark her life. if that is the case you can help her and get some counseling and make your lives together more interesting to keep the spark.Good Luck and God Bless!!

[Christopher O]

Well, first of all do you trust her? That's huge in any relationshiop because if you don't . . . leave her now. don't burden yourself and be in a relationship you'll be suspicious of the rest of your life do you AND her a favor and leave. But make sure and ask questions first and foremost. 1.)Was it a male tatoo artist. 2.)What made you want to get it? 3.)Have your feelings about me and/or us changed since leaving for the trip?4.)Is there anything I can do to make our relationship better?