View Full Version : do wives resent when husbands take weekend golf trips?
with their buddies to places like Las Vegas, Myrtle Beach, SC and Hilton Head,NC?
Jessie
05-16-2007, 09:03 PM
I think it depends on the wife. If you have one, why don't you ask her?
littledebi
05-17-2007, 03:00 PM
I don't know about "all" wifes, but I think if a woman is mature and loves and trusts her husband, it is only healthy to "be okay" with him having that time with his buddies, regardless of the locations. To ease any hard feelings, the husband could offer to whisk his wife away to one of those fun locations on a non-golfing weekend for some fun in the sun together!
free_angel
05-19-2007, 09:30 AM
She can either resent the husband or take weekend trips to. And without him.
CaffeineJunkie
05-21-2007, 09:06 AM
Who the hell golfs in Vegas?You're wife isnt dumb, if you tell her you're going to go golfing in Vegas for the weekend, she knows you're going there to drink cocktails and get your knob polished by some cheap skank
Nikki B
05-21-2007, 12:30 PM
It totally depends on the situation....if we dont have the money to go and do things like that together or if I wanted to go somewhere but couldnt because of finances, I dont think it'd be hardly fair if he went. My husband recently went fishing with my dad and about 13 other men...for almost a week. They had a blast...and I got to hang out with mom and my aunt and we ran around and did things...it was good!
Sneha_Sunel
05-24-2007, 06:14 AM
What ?? why?? do those places have nude beaches and stuff?I dont think she will have any problem with your buddies time unless she doesnt trust you or you do that very often and dont spend time with herBut if you want to go every other weekend that it might be a problem! She might want to spend time with her husband /her family. You are a husband first and than a friend to others remember that!
deakjone
06-04-2007, 08:38 PM
Well first you have to ask yourself if you would resent your wife and buddy's wives tagging along with you all to Las Vegas, Hilton Head and Myrtle Beach... That should help you formulate an answer to your question...
happygirl
06-05-2007, 10:20 AM
Sometimes. It depends on how often the husband is gone and how good a husband he is when he is at home. A great husband is less likely to have a resentful wife.
Man you just got to understand your wife.If you do that and you give them opps as well to get away by themselfs then you sholdn't have any kind of probloms.Good Luck
jerryg1212
06-05-2007, 02:20 PM
You certainly know your golf resorts! I've been to all of them and would crawl over broken beer bottles to get back to HH. Not so much for Myrtle Beach though. And CaffeineJunkie doesn't know what he's talking about - there are some fabulous courses in Vegas. The cocktails and other shinanigans are for when it's too dark for golf.I highly recommend the Monterrey Peninsula about 75 miles south of San Jose. Play Rancho Canada (2 courses) and Poor Man's Pebble Beach in Pacific Grove (Pacific Grove Golf Links - the back 9 is amazing) and then have a burger at Clint's Mission Ranch in Carmel.
Greg V
06-05-2007, 03:40 PM
My experience is no, they don't. However, be sure to bring a nice gift back for your wife, and when she ultimately asks about being allowed to have a "girl's weekend" away somewhere with her friends, don't balk at the idea!